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Carl Jung defined "Shadow" as aspects of personality that your "ego" does not claim to be part of your self, the traits you do not want to own in yourself.
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If you are reading this, I can make a guess that you have either already been in a relationship or are in one & at least started facing the hardships or you've never been in a relationship precisely because of the hardships involved.
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The 3rd mistake made by Life Coaches & NLP trainers, which is absolutely lethal for their credibility - is to make an unsolicited pitch for their services or pop up the benefits of their services during conversations which are absolutely unrelated.
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2nd Fatal Mistake Life Coaches & NLP Trainers Make Which Can Crush The Life Out Of Their Business !!
The 2nd ABSOLUTELY FATAL mistake Life Coaches & NLP trainers make is - NOT charging for their services.
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Life coaching & the field of NLP are both abstract subjects. When introducing youself & your craft in either of these 2 fields, your prospective client, if they are not already aware of your field, is not going to understand anything from the name of this field & will ask you what these fields are about.